You know, I'm just not sure how helpful dating really is for finding your future spouse. I mean it--I don't know if it's very helpful at all. I just got home from a date with an attractive woman, but it's clear it would be a mistake for me to pursue a relationship with her, though there are parts of me that would love to do so. I've got a second woman I'm thinking about, but I'm suspecting the same thing will be the case with her. It would be very easy to have a relationship with each--we could get along fine, I'm sure, and we could have a good time, but that's where things would stop.
Part of me is beginning to believe that I shouldn't even worry about "dating" per se, and completely trust God to reveal to me who my wife will be. If he can make the earth keep revolving day after day, He can certainly reveal my wife to me in His good time.