The first, for my insomniac friends, from a letter dated 27/xi/53:
"About sleep: do you find that the great secret (if one can do it) is not to care whether you sleep? Sleep is a jade who scorns her suitors but woos her scorners."
The second, wisdom on loving, from a letter dated Dec 22d 1953:
"Remember it is not being loved but loving wh. is the high & holy thing."